At a time like this, election coming up, after having so many tense discussions about current events, and how to go about caring while resuming your life as normal, I’m sure like most it’s easy to get burnt out caring so much. Have no fear, this is a good time to pause, and to reflect on retaining that ability to find common ground, in spite of our differences. I hope that my cloudflare accounts measurements of my web address lesliefischman.com and domain, illustrates that 442.26k following that helps to establish a world wide common ground online. It wouldn’t be a safe community to chat, if there wasn’t some sort of peace at stake, not worth losing over anything.
According to Google.com AI:
Here are some strategies for finding common ground in conflict:
- Listen actively: Listening for common ground can help validate areas of disagreement and focus on areas of agreement.
- Acknowledge emotions: Expressing sympathy for others’ experiences can help create a more empathetic approach to conflict resolution.
- Focus on interests: Identify shared goals and values to create a foundation for collaboration and compromise.
- Celebrate diversity: Diversity can be a source of strength, creativity, and innovation, as it brings different perspectives, skills, and experiences to the table.
- Be empathetic and compassionate: Cultivate empathy by trying to understand others’ perspectives.
- Be respectful: Treat each other with respect and let each other speak their minds calmly [1]
I would say the agreement is everything that I have published online up until now, just re-published and paid my bill for mymollydoll.com if you want to check out my first website! Part of managing any agreement that is working in the minds of others, is to not mess up that feeling of peace, coming to terms, being at ease, feeling settled. As a writer, aside from voices, I too get that sudden burst of energy that always seems to stifle me, I wouldn’t know what to do with a feeling like that, it’s something that seems like too much, and makes me keep still to calm down, I’m not good in a rush, I tend to drive slow, and walk slow on the treadmill (on meds) and work hard but it doesn’t always have to be fast paced. You know the more prepared you are moving forward the faster you get when times call for any kind of support in the event of an emergency, that talent is in being ready when the time calls for it. We are all made up of different parts, and different thoughts, and have different ways of saying things, seeing things, communicating our values and ideas, and opinions, and that’s the part of life that makes living worthwhile, to stick to your beliefs, and not easily be persuaded or changed by others. I believe in everyone’s right to be themselves, we will all find our places in life, it’s all a matter of what you are willing to set aside, put up with, not make a big deal of, and in place of all those expectations still be able to follow your dreams, like I have in writing for example.
So don’t lose sight of group goals no matter what levels of coding are occurring, you know life evolves in every field, think of the Olympics, that one second faster that makes everyone go wow, and the tremendous pride you see in the record holder or setter. Let’s be like that, let’s keep going and following our instincts, all expert opinions aside, and live life as though you do spend 23 hours (x7 days a week) taking care of yourself, for every hour of therapy/week, but they can’t help you every step of the way, that’s your job to take care of yourself full time, and fill those hours with worthwhile projects, activities, and habits that make you who you are. As society evolves, we should evolve too, and that’s the part of life where you kind of have to figure out what to do when you get there, you won’t know everything.
There will be many firsts, and there will be many moments, you will be left with little to no direction in life, or feel stuck, don’t isolate, never forget to be proactive. Whether your goals are world peace, whether your goals are humor, whether your goals are building a platform for yourself one day like I have and help others, creatively influence one another, and make up some stuff to go by. It’s however you see how life works, is what life means to you, don’t let anyone make you decide differently, how things should be, no business, no professional, you can follow the lead of others, admire, be inspired, but in the end don’t also not forget to be that person, who excites others to see and know you, is able to lift others, who’s improvement offers inspiration to others, and who’s attitude in life inspires others to be caretakers and work in the helping professions too like me.
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[1] https://www.linkedin.com/advice/0/what-most-effective-strategies-finding









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