It is clear that people are affected upon mention, so will not try to separate my mental health from what any other family faces whether they come from a wealthy family or a successful family, is not any cause for later mental health issues, the insult by comparison I was referring to was comparison to offenders, I think likewise comparison to me would be insulting on the basis if Im viewed as offensive, so that would not help women or empower women. Therefore if women are doing well in general and confident, on the basis of “voices” would mean that women have been accommodated on the basis of how I performed in public or through writing, have not and should not be made to go through similar difficulty in life, especially if they have been victimized, that is not related to my story not by any picture or any humor coming from me, or by my experiences in life, make what has happened to me occurring on purpose like I should know if something bad happens to me that affects others, you learn after something bad happens to you that you get blamed for any mental health issue that you suffer from, and that being viewed as your fault, let alone, be accused of living a life that is known or not respected, be accused of being a person from a story, who would ever subject another woman to being harmed, and not to conclude that my life is compared, or that her life, should be affected by my life, and then hurt me based on an unconfirmed inspiration to study law, which would be because of her Father. I am someone who recognized those losses before law school, never at any time would I ever be on any team in life and ever not respect those losses as being traumatic, I have never read into any loss as informing me of anything ongoing at large that I should be made aware of, I think who is represented is based upon your health and what you have to say, that’s not inviting danger or helping in a way that any later diagnosis is used as excuse to compare myself, to anyone else who’s life was shortened, that’s not the solution, to say that I don’t empathize. I have always supported them, and never had issues about anything female male or sexuality, and never had to see life in that way, therefore I am not someone who judges a woman by class or by reputation, and there is no standard in life that Im trying to live up to as though I ever saw any life as any less than my own life. Therefore respect on the basis of who is successful, is about people not being made to feel bad, about anyone else’s mental health diagnosis, and that’s something you cant make someone see, when you are giving them voices, and the moments in which I was supported, was appreciated, and not underserved, what makes undeserved support is when you look bad, or when people think you make bad decisions affecting the lives of others, as though you don’t have your priorities in order, I think connecting before you Dad passes, is an important thing to do in life, to talk and to have positive conversations in life, I don’t think that that experience was a relieve as though I felt a permission to suddenly be able to do things in life, death is traumatic, and the experience of loss is painful throughout crying and makes you think about time, and with disability makes you think about all the years you have lost due to disability or disappointment, and glad that you are in a better place, to have those conversations, and then be able to follow through on advices, so that’s how just in the right amount of time I made it to an improved condition, to be there for my family, and start talking more.