It takes some settling down information wise, in order for things to go right mentally for others. What Ive learned through blogging is people don’t like chatter, they don’t like excitement, they don’t like enthusiasm, they don’t like humor, and they don’t like sweet, when things are buckled down in a serious way, this is when to keep your distance from people. Its common for people to be averted to someone who sounds nice or appears well, its common to interactions in which you are hurt, occurring when your defenses are down and you are nice to someone, for someone to hurt you or lead you into a deal, or some kind of promise, that ends up taking from you, that’s fraud, a person posing as helpful, who is asking for money from you, or asking for your attention to something to pay attention to something that they are having you focus on, and if that takes your attention away from other things, is how people think they are hurt, paying attention to something that is not real or not worth their time and energy. So what can make people feel that way? People who don’t feel good are hard to please, and hard to make feel better, its that they don’t feel good, so they don’t feel good by most things, which is what separates you from your feeling, and their feeling, now what if there are things to like in common, what then becomes the issue if someone is unhappy toward you, is that they don’t want to feel good in common to the same things or people, therefore people want to see how you feel separate from others, to determine where you light, energy, and positivity comes from. People cannot realize the existence of a trait or a benefit, until they feel it themselves, and this is part of the frustration of speaking to all, you don’t know what are the reasons for someone reading your blog, what their expectations are on a macro-or micro level, and what they hope to achieve through reading, it will be some benefit or reassurance, nothing is promised in life, and promises are made to be believed upon the creation of interests that can be held in common, that reassure what people already know, or have experience with, is what drives people to succeed in life, when things are put together in a small way, that’s easy to digest and compartmentalize, that does not cause them to have to think too hard or concentrate. We expect that upon concentration that we will achieve a clarity, and that’s what most expect through “good writing” whats hard to believe is that a “good writer” has a diagnosis that says otherwise, so what are the types of disorganization that can be faced by someone with a mental health issue (inability, to focus, function, write, and read) would be disorganization (not motivated, tired, and sleepy) so that’s an example of a disability. Upon functioning, disability is not present because what you are working on or focused on is something that is coming from you a desire to focus, which is easy to do for most, therefore reading is with a desire to make sense of what is going on for a person, that could be feelings toward me, feelings toward others, feelings about life, feelings about organizations, feelings about politics, feelings about lawsuits, feelings about schools, feelings about people, a lot can come up with you through the process of reading, the public safety aspect of reading is that you are not the one writing, you are not the one watched, you are not the one threatened, and you are not the one sued, therefore that’s the benefit to being a reader, is that you cant start over, change, start from the beginning, and you don’t have to be read, misread, diagnosed, or miss out on life thinking too much.