Focus on a positive stimulus, when you are positive, and good spirited and want things to turn out well for others, able to be happy for others, proud of others, influence positive changes to be made, pave way for greater acceptances, it will be the positives that will be weighed against the negatives in life. I don’t think that the call to action or success online is a result of anything bad happening, I think if you have something good going for you in life, that’s how you keep going, consider all the negatives hurdles, difficulties, and challenges that we all face. Let no shooting be viewed as a stimulus or an immediate call to action on anyones behalf, like all mass trauma, it takes years of support to get through devastations, significant losses, or societal unrest and turmoil. These are ways of being and being accepting of others, that takes time, and with acceptance for one anothers struggles and achievements in life. If for everytime we experienced a trajedy we became stronger, the more guilt we would feel for not having been stronger before suffering a loss, how can you continue on pushing yourself to extremes in response to losses, at what point does responsibility follow and accountability. I think the more popular you are the more responsibility you have, and especially by education the more is expected of you. Then there is mental health, a convincing you of something being wrong by you, let alone caused by you, I don’t think I could easily be in acceptance of any portrayal of anything being my fault, is very much undeserved given my hard work and success online, and leadership demonstrated. I think there are rarely excuses for losses, that puts everyone at ease, there really is no logical explanation most times, for why a person decides to commit a crime, let alone a violent offense with a gun, there is no comparison, of that person’s mental health, to anyone else’s mental health, including my own. I don’t think its okay to use people to treat other people and make the wrong people gravitate toward me, a logical punishment of a woman who suffers from mental health issues, is not the cause of a man’s mental health issues, let alone a shooters mental health, I think that’s taking things too far, once you decide to connect me, or use sickness to punish me, or hospital to spread some public announcement of something difficult to compartmentalize being my fault, as why Im hospitalized.