There are multiple ways to move forward. Talking about the past shouldn’t be a daunting task but it can be. There isn’t one story of heroism that everyone needs to adapt to.

There’s not one social circle closer to the center of anything in life that you can’t find and achieve on your own.

The lesson with hope and waiting on things to get better and permissions is that things are done with respect. I know respect is a big thing these days when it comes to who you do and don’t listen to in life and trust, so let’s not underestimate the importance of these issues arising but let’s not also have such high expectations that what is fails to be good enough and put people at ease and at peace with how things are now.

We all could use a lesson or two on having greater appreciation for what is. Life isn’t short time can be short depending on how you spend your time.

Each generation working harder than the one coming before it to maintain a standard of things going well eventually we get older and become leaders ourselves.

I hope that by sharing my story you expect a little less, you see things as good enough, you don’t expect more, your okay with sitting with bad or good feelings, and you don’t expect answers to be given to you in life to jumpstart motivation and inspiration. Any story can be a story of value the main lesson is with connections it hurts a little more in face of disrespect and takes a lot more work to sustain wellness around subjects concerning yourself and so much proof of being who you say you are.

Don’t let anyone convince you that someone of importance is failing who you see online everyday no one knows you better than yourself. A lesson in not believing everything you hear and see. Especially when it comes to any one other than me addressing the public in a way that’s disrespectful and using me or my life to cause concern or uproar. Is not my fault.