It’s always a healthy idea to take a step back and remind yourself not everyone knows me, it’s not a big deal, this is only temporary, you’ll get through this, not everyone knows your story, not everyone thinks something the same, it’s not about me, and come to grips with life in a way that you give yourself permission to not allow yourself or others to get carried away in the negative.

Spare yourself and others the pain of anyone making things out to be about something it’s not. That to me is being strong and standing your ground not to allow yourself to get sick or fall apart and completely spent wasting time in arguments over inclusion, humor, or idea origination and simply accept yourself as you are not taking responsibility for anything you’re not comfortable with or everything beyond your exact influence and reach in life.

Sometimes a better solution to allow for others to just be and give yourself permission to just be doesn’t require being put down to make other people feel better or be the butt of any joke that’s not the solution.

Trust your reality no one can tell you how to see life they are not you and you are not them you are mostly responsible for yourself and your audience and who’s connected to you be a voice for yourself and those you care about. Don’t get caught up in fights or underground movements for or against people in life that’s not the solution.