I’m probably the only person, who crushes and loves someone who ends up suing me, as unbelievable as that sounds, but its forced me to really focus on my mental health, and improve in a way, that I don’t get punished, and able to move on and still hold my head high. You don’t just get the benefit of the doubt nowadays, not with so much as play ongoing, you really have to put in the work to build trust, not have problems in life unsettling to others, to be accepted, and I think being accepted, and for no one to have a problem with you, is the solution moving forward, to ensure that things go right. As hard as that sounds, caring what everyone thinks, and not in a religious way, seek acceptance (or blessings, or approval, or support) we won’t always get that much going into things, but don’t self doubt just because not everyone knows everything, not everything is decided in court, or by public opinion, that you have to constantly, question your own feelings, or sense of morality, or recognition of whats right and wrong, sometimes life requires permissions, and sometimes you are allowed to take those leaps of faith, and hope for the best, no matter what happens, and the good thing about taking honest leaps of faith, and things working out in the long run, is that its something reassuring that makes you feel good about yourself for making the effort and following your heart. We need reminders like that every once in awhile, I wouldn’t call that being mischievous, or a poor sense of humor, or always require wit, to see the positive in everything, when things are good, when things feel good, you know that’s when all the good thoughts will happen in stride not be a bothersome recollection or collection of thoughts that just get left out in the open to pile up and think about with grievance, not everything will always feel right, but if you have the stamina and the strength to have that sense of faith in your own instincts and decisions, you know love can always prevail, as a feeling that brings people together, that honest acceptance and wish for things to improve and for all to be happy, and to me that’s love.