If you want love, before I let you out of your stables, pause. Maybe you’re not ready to get back out there, but first get heart strong. Last thing you need is to get your heart broken. They always say to love yourself before you love another. You have to love yourself because it’s the energy you put out into the world you get back!

Wait to date! I may not be that religious but I believe in saving yourself and not just F anyone, you’ll regret it later in life. I know I have, why I stopped going out to the bars, they just take advantage of you, blackout drunk one night ended up waking up to a guy leaving my apartment in a hurry and didn’t even know his name I had to shout wait to get his number we didn’t even exchange numbers and he left on a skateboard. They say after that to take your pick, that might explain why I fell in love with a DA, that’s being scared to date!

But you can do this, you can overcome this, one step at a time all the more reason not to drink and get separated from friends. I’m sure all my friends felt guilt in that moment and I’m not the only person that happens to. We look out for each other but it still happens. And I thought it wouldn’t happen again but it does probably why we have Tinder and Bumble now so you can pick! There’s so much power in being able to pick that makes dating and sex that much of an easier experience in life, doesn’t it.