However long it takes, to set it down, and not pick it back up, is however long it takes for you to get over a thought or phase in life, that you just want out of and to grow from. Learn your lessons in life in stride and dont beat yourself up. Living life isnt a piece of cake, sometimes it takes courage to grow, to admit your weaknesses, and begin again. But you’re not alone in this. Nobody is perfect, even if you see people online you think have the best lives, envious of them, everyone has problems. So dont get too tied up in what you are not, and think about all that you are, and all that you can be. You can do anything you set your mind to. Everyday is a day to begin again, start fresh, and try again, you dont have to get it down perfect, but with practice you will start living life, on your own terms, without regret, or resentments, you will feel free of all that is holding you back in life. It’s that refreshing feeling of oh my gosh I made it through the toughest parts in life and still standing, you will find yourself on the top of the mountain, and to me that is called pride.