Ever feel like there’s something wrong with you? It’s not completely your fault. Not everything you do or think or say is wrong maybe just who’s listening or speaking back doesn’t quite think you realize the circumstances of the world right now and thinks they know better. They call this butting heads, especially right now as things evolve and progress is made and more technology and entertainment is being offered to us we may not be into the same things in life but that doesn’t mean judge others offered the same opportunities as you in life to see the world and be in it too. 

For some communicating a feeling of rejection even when you’re not paying attention to them can be annoying. When others expect you to pay attention to them, you’re not obligated to notice everyone in the room or make others feel special that’s an inside job requires no communication back sometimes is best. Sometimes “you can never tell what they want.” [1]

According to one article passive aggression “is a way of expressing negative feelings, such as anger or annoyance, indirectly instead of directly.” [2] Passive aggression by definition on Google is “a pattern of indirectly expressing negative feelings, such as anger or resentment, instead of openly addressing them.” [3]

Don’t let others feelings toward you bring you down in life. Don’t seek validation and acknowledgment from others either. Don’t expect people to recognize your difficulties in life or seek compassion. You can’t ask for things in life that can be given to you with enough hard work and a disciplined focus on yourself. When others “undermine” [4] you prove them wrong, just not be passive back.

According to one article “You might feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells or stuck trying to understand what you’ve done wrong.” [5] Don’t fall into that trap of what’s wrong with me what’s wrong with them. See the light of day, things will improve but we have to start improving first and this should better all relationships moving forward, continue showing up anyways for people and you be you.

Reference:

[1] https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/social-connection/passive-aggressive-behavior

[2] https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/passive-aggression

[3] https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/social-connection/passive-aggressive-behavior

[4] https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/social-connection/passive-aggressive-behavior

[5] https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/social-connection/passive-aggressive-behavior