Bloggers function as stepping stones help you get through the day, concept, emotion, or annoying regressions in life probably best suited in dialogue for companionships and loving relationships, the simple chit chat we all love and adore to share, some don’t even get that much in life a pleasant hello or acknowledgement.

Try to “maintain a calm, understanding and patient attitude” [1] It’s your stability that either creates for simplicity to the mind of another reading or interrogation of an agile spirit waiting for you to come around emotionally to say something on point to their concerns -we don’t always reach that much with others some are higher up than you think and pleasantly awaiting our arrivals.

What may be exhibited? Whenever you get the urge to read into communications approach all subjects thoughtfully, everyone’s got a fight in them to be reckoned with you’ll never know where it’s coming from, don’t lose your peace to stupidity or playing stupid, be objective not condescending subjective of others. Allow for relation or compassion for feelings or emotions, that’s expression you may feel excluded but as a writer you cannot exclude that’s what a reader feels is owed to them.

Usually we don’t read into the words of others in an inappropriate and condescending way either by diagnosis or gossip overheard. That usually stales an otherwise improved sense of self or so they think, hope I’m not one of them. Never put words into the mouths of others, they can speak for themselves, and if not be courteous to the reputations of others, not to be dismantled for entertainment be expected less of in life, that would be the failure of humor it makes others uncomfortable if you appear uncomfortable about others why comfort with yourself matters and so do the interpretations of other.

Unless the space provided is open to honest thoughtful discussion of events then approach all situations unstable or previously unstable with caution politeness and clarity. For example to not soothe a rough edge and spur violence toward you as though your commentary is done so as an unwanted advance into the mind of another. Recognize how writing can do the same trick as consoling a child through their own instabilities or meltdowns, solitude is not the solution to leave people alone with upsets in life why space provided online can undo that feeling of being alone in whatever the circumstance may be get help by your own choosing “Google search.”

Don’t assume where the space is quiet that anything negative lingers it’s only until you do speak to it that it’s spurred or only until you are read into to mean something else that creates an aggression toward your psyche as though it holds or retains anything to spark ignite or cause for reverse of circumstance made true. That’s where one thing is in existence is changed for the existence of another being situate you that’s how you go from proud to shame confidence to embarrassment polite girly to boyish and looking forward to the future with possibility toward acceptance of now as unstoppable unchangeable broken or a diminished capacity for respect and good feelings be shared.

For any unearthed feelings disgruntled unhappy, recognize how and why that occurs and where does your frustration lie in changes to your demeanor what are the consequences of not feeling like yourself and how do you suffer as something else in life to others what affects your self worth and positive insight as you identify your place in life among others.

It could just be that I’m old perhaps that’s the bend of a 37 year old key with caution or resistance by anyone who thinks by energy clarity is smarter. Anticipate that written as though for correction expect that people wanting to better you or themselves that’s writing what you can do for yourself will be different in a take that another can do for themselves.

That’s a positive quality of writing an interpretation of impression or room for improvement expected. Where there is time wasted there is also the possibility for anyone to lose interest and also respect.

What a child deserves versus what an adult expects they expect to be wowed or ignore you they expect to feel good by you or better than. That’s just society … how are you helping and if not helping starts the criticism for how are you disallusioned or inviting for rejections. I don’t think I engage in that type of writing or confrontation online or anyone that must be a cerebral thing to cater to an audience you are either aware or not aware of to do away with an issue change you for you to experience pain suffering and loss to see how you feel and respond if they think you’re not affected sometimes life teaches you until scared and maybe that’s when most of us simplify. Take things down a notch the intensity of your clarity may dwindle and wane but what you leave behind speaks volumes of you whether or not you’re dismantled along the way.

Example: “You’re really angry right now. That’s okay. I’ll just sit here with you. I’ll sit here with you until it is over.” “You’re so sad right now and you don’t even know why. It’s okay. I’ll stay with you until it passes. Don’t worry, we have plenty of time.”

People with inner turmoil are resistant to being apart of and so they are treated I’m sure I’ve been one of them in my day. The feeling of togetherness is very much based on peace it’s a sense of distance and respect that occurs on occasion not in a ceremonious way just when things clear on all ends that’s how peace exists it’s either disturbed, created, replaced, manifested, or realized and if only those suffering could stop to clear their minds to recognize the potential for peace within the confines of their mind could they be more accepted by others, otherwise is a game of separation of things we are or are not separate from either this changes those odds out to be more like or stared at until a flaw is shown or found sometimes space can’t be explained. And sometimes that distance is strength not turmoil and sometimes that reservation is to not be bonded to terms or experiences shared everyone’s entitled to that right in life.

References:

[1] https://www.psychalive.org/what-to-do-about-tantrums-and-emotional-meltdowns/

[2] https://www.inc.com/marla-tabaka/9-crazy-things-to-make-you-more-productive.html

[3] https://www.apa.org/monitor/nov02/gomad

[4] https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/nuts