Everyone has another side of them the side that complains, or gets upset, or disassociates, or gets tough, distant, or defiant, that side of you that sticks up for yourself or others, the fighter in you, just make sure you have a clear destination to maintain a peace, not disrupt it. There is action and inaction, action is for making things better, in stressful times, and inaction is the culprit of things made worse, if you have ever recognized at which moments do you feel most whole, its when you’re “proactive.” What does it mean to be proactive, “Proaction is worth viewing as a superpower because it is the “possible you” that 1) spots and prevents problems, 2) identifies, pursues, and captures opportunities, and 3) creates a new, personally-chosen, desired future through a strategic change of trajectory.” [1]

If you have ever wondered about my energy, and leadership style, or productivity, it comes from doing things right, monitoring my progress, recording my progress, checking in, sending emails, writing letters, sending reports, sometimes the only way to help is to be clear on non-discussible issues, that’s for the protection of everyones well being, not to be alarmed to facts or differences in life, of work already done, to be left with a feeling incomplete, that’s the reverse of allowing progress to occur, that’s sending people back to places you ever were, when you had no one to explain to you what to do or how to do things or what to think. The past can explain less of whats to come, its in what you do now, that determines your future. Usually past perspectives of people, are maybe less impressive, but do the trick, I think we are in a phase in life when the past appears more beautiful than the present, and that can probably be because so much is going on in the news and in life, that’s its hard to keep a good feeling going nowadays. So don’t dump your eggs all in one basket quite yet, we are all in repair doing our best, so not one issue is about one person, or one theme, or one trajectory, success already happened, right now its about who is maintaining those feelings balanced to turn to in light of conditions or things ongoing, to find some place of comfort or familiarity, if you cant think it through yourself, this is how reading helps you to think through, pain, or uncertainty, or difficulty, its not everyones job to have things completely figured out, we are not all presendential briefed updated and given information in life, that’s not how life works its about your assembly.

If you ever want to become a member of a group appreciated don’t complain, and know that everything you do in life, reflects on them as well as yourself, that’s how uncomfortably public your life becomes once you are known, people take the liberty to listen, to watch, to read your messages, to monitor you, so unless you are willingly to be fearless in the review of your progress and conversations, don’t even get started trying to live a public life, its likely to turn to shambles if you don’t fit the bill, or don’t have sufficient work completed to buffer your standing in life, to speak, or to be heard with gratitude. There will be weird moments in life, clear skies, blurred lines, shallow circumstances, guessing games, certainty, belief, competition, feeling good, feeling bad. Its life what do you expect it to be, all roses and rainbows of course not, life is challenging, it gets harder, you earn privileges, you lose privileges, you overcome disability, you face worse circumstances. Sometimes being known causes you to lose all your power so you cant be yourself, it depends on what you are allowing to control you? What people think of you, what you look like, proof of your community, stats, analytics, there can be any number of reasons for dislike? What it comes down to is that its your life, live it, be free, and don’t complain or draw attention to any negativity or uncomfortable feelings and don’t make the discomforts of others your own issue. The only one you have to be cool with is yourself. If you are cool with yourself, it will not matter who is cool or not cool with you, you’ll make it!