I don’t think that most people intend to hurt you when they do, mostly people are normal interactions with others, that’s the nice refreshing aspect of life. So that’s the character “good character” that’s worth maintaining in life, your social graces, conversational skills, image, how you appear. It’s not that others can tell whether you are genuine or not, it will be when you are not believed that your “good character” is put to the test. People don’t know what mental illness looks like, so its unfortunate to be someone who is being used to define what mental illness looks like, I don’t think anyone wants to be a poster child or statistic for how a person gets sick in life, I don’t think that’s what treatment or medical care is for, to be used as a textbook for helping or diagnosing others, so always with respect for everyones backgrounds and different comprehensions of life, so choose to judge people by or not.

People are hurt when they feel as though they are at a loss, so whos to blame for those losses. I think with a mental health issue you get judged as though you are the carrier of a disease that conflicts with a normal comprehension of life, as though what you have to say, or how you lived your life, is not for public display, or exposes anyone to any harsh truth about reality or life, in a way that anyone would be made scared of people, or feel offended by different personality types. How are people influenced for the better, people improve and are influenced for the better when they are spoken to clearly, in an honest way, that’s not defensive or constantly about themselves, people appreciate being acknowledged, people are usually fearful of “influence” in the event that they do not approve of your writing, your face, or your body, which is my constant dilemma not appearing well and consistent in photos, which should have nothing to do with who is watching me, viewing my computer, or phone, studying or reading me, should not affect how I look nor should who I come to love or admire should also not be viewed as an attachment physical that is changing my appearance or controlling my look or happiness held within, we all shine in different ways, and we can all be made jaded and lose our light in life, so it would be in the best interests of all to not have bad experiences, and to also not use death or addiction or alcoholism or losses as examples of “bad feelings” to be associated to people, or designate as a force coming from any person, individual, personality, online, or physically affecting anyone in real life. Just because we may have looked similar who I talked to for 3 years, doesn’t mean that I embody a look that is hiding another look absent attachments healthy in life, my face is the same with or without talking to anyone, with or without sex, so that’s not how you view or come to judge the worth of a blogger, with hesitancy as though you may inherit a mental illness, from look or focus upon a person physically or mentally. A delusion or an aversion with take hold no matter who you are in life, not everyone was made to be attracted to eachother, not everyone was made to have sex with one another, so this should not be learned the hard way, what beauty is about, having love for yourself, and humanity.