This is something that Im constantly learning and improving on in life, and I don’t think it comes easy to most, conversational skills about life, not especially right now, so don’t be afraid to state your cares, you would be surprised how many are empassioned to care and have an opinion or two themselves to share. That’s what you should not fear, never be afraid to care, its not your thoughts that are the problem, it’s the problem that becomes your thoughts, see it that way, accept less on behalf of others, that’s a common dilemma people have when trying to separate themselves from a problem, pick a side end of discussion.

Most things in life should be that way, it may not be a conversation that people hold publicly on a grand scale like to a huge audience or on social media, but embrace that life on a smaller scale you are allowed to have those conversations and state those opinions in the privacy of your therapy, therapy groups, meetups, court, to an attorney, to a psychiatrist, and if your careful about what you say and have a positive attitude about things, then nothing you feel or think will turn into a bad feeling, or turn into a problem for you, that’s the benefit of being sure of yourself, you don’t have to apologize for what you think, and I think blogging is admired in that way, unapologetic thinking, that doesn’t bother others mostly, that encourages people to think and that their thinking isn’t wrong.

Blogging is not an agreement, I’ve been writing since 2019 (5 years) of publishing posts, if everything were an agreement then I’m sure that most people would have left by now, the fact that people are around to read, means, there’s a quality about how I talk, that is not going against the quality of the conversations ongoing public and in private amongst people, that’s what is common to not be so sure of, is what you know something someone else knows about? Ask? Is something you’re thinking something that someone else would have something to say about? Ask. Is how you are feeling something that someone else has felt at some point in your life? If you’re not sure share.

You would be surprised that people are more nice, more intuitive, and more confident than you would expect at these times, its just on a public speaking level that things get intense, it seems to be that “agreement” visualization of things going right, that if a writing is popular “it should work in the minds of everyone” and the threat of something not working in the minds of others or in disagreeable taste conflicts with everything else that is going well for others.

We may be connected along accepted plains in life, but that shouldn’t stop anyone from accepting anyone on the basis of what is being said and how it applies to now. Everyone is in different stages, age, relationships, life, housing options, we are not all famous, and most people did not grow up in big houses hosting parties, and social with everyone. I was lucky enough to grow up in a big house and have friends over and be around my Brother’s friends on weekends. So that was how I grew up, everyone grows up differently. I think if you have skills in life, you can later become the person you were in life, online, the same disposition will occur for you, as I have experienced socially, people taking me under their wing, people friending me, people opening up to me, people asking me out, you don’t have to take much initiative in life to live a life absent harms and commentary against you in life, you would be surprised that I have written for 5 years, and rarely have bumped heads with anyone, usually occurring if you write about others, that seems to be the false reality to the person who knows you, whereby what things are to them, are not the same as things are to you, is the lesson in writing about people, that whenever you write about people, its what things seem like to you, that doesn’t mean that what things are to that person, is the same thing as what seems like to you, so that’s how people feel if they are written about, people are not comfortable being talked about, on the basis that either you are presenting things as they are beneficial to how they want things to be situated toward them, which is why people don’t want to be written about to not make things situated toward them different based on their current reality, is how you leave a person in control of how they appear to others and in control of what people think of them, I think everyone deserves that much in life.