A true test of character is who you are with the least amount of support, money, security, and assurances in life. This is the stuff that determines who you are as a person when you’re hurt broken scared defeated or seemingly losing in life to any diagnosis. What are you left with and what will keep you going in life to start anew, get well, and create for a better place in life if your spot in life has not already been ruined or devalued for any reason minimized to be anything less than improved.

Being strong for others means that despite whatever I (or you) went through I was strong (so were you) and disciplined graduated and did my best (whether or not I knew you or you knew me). It’s not experience that makes you strong it’s whether you can continue living life anyways (knowing others, not knowing others, in the loop, a latecomer, on trend, informed, caught up, there’s always time to learn). Learn to accept your experiences in life and what shapes you even the moments that break your heart or leave you feeling fed up we all have different expectations of one another not one more well connected or able than the other. Its the experiences that you have that no matter how traumatizing things get, no diagnosis about it (not even my own), leads to any misunderstanding (felt by you or interpreted by you as to me) that doesn’t affect your interpretations of others any less well adjusted to reality and who you come to value in life and get to know. What you think and how you feel is never anything toward you you don’t have control over in life, so although it can become a nerve wracking struggle of not feeling good and others not sure of you (things get better when you get better more successful more well spoken more beautiful more presentable it’s how you look that determines how you’re treated in life people can’t expect that much else from you other than by looking at you). It seems that your stability is rocked (in the event you’re not well adjusted so that’s not you losing your confidence or not having the skills in life others do it means get strong with who you are in life until you’re not bothered by anyone or affected). Even if there’s no one to buffer you or help you to get strong again this is how you know whether you are relied on for being a healthy strong person and who you are or what you mean to others if nothing yet.