You don’t need to know somebody to be somebody, take it from me, started with nothing, a blank blog with nothing on it, twice, and filled up those spaces with content that people enjoy reading. As a side, I have mentioned briefly associations, but we don’t need to advertise names and people in order to draw an audience to it’s positive purpose, to support content online that helps others, and I continue and plan to do just that. Otherwise it wouldn’t make sense to be online if I weren’t someone, continuing to improve and studying with ways to help others, it’s worth the effort. It’s a process to help and be helped in life, and hope that I am a good example of that.

Tips for Being Online, and Being Known:

• Get To Know Yourself
• Get to Know Others
• Be Grateful for the People You Do Meet
• Have Something Nice to Say, Be Positive
• Don’t Be Afraid to Share Your Story
• Continue to Do Your Research and Teach Back

It’s impossible to know everything, not even I can continue to come up with content on my own, after 5 years, it’s time to start doing more articles, that was the plan. So let’s combine thinking spaces with Google.com, and give it a go. Not needing to be somebody to be somebody, let’s hear what they have to say online, first. According to Google.com this topic falls in line with the following issue, “Someone may pretend to be a different person because they’re not happy with the person they actually are.” [1] I can’t emphasize more, using myself as an example, although known, that you don’t have to have all the bells and whistles to begin with. I for example didn’t start routinely wearing makeup until 2015, maybe not even until my 30s, and that’s okay, you can only focus on things you have time for. I was someone who focused all my time and energy on law school and how I looked never prevented me from having a boyfriend, I always dated when I was younger. I was lucky to get to date, it’s only until my 30s that things have gotten complicated, since messaging online, and I suppose that’s my mistake to reach out to anyone online, when not ready to date in real life. So this issue to me brings up two things: (1) beauty and (2) weight, perhaps the two things that people want to verify about you if to date you online, first of all this is a blog, and second of all I have been taking selfies for years and never used a lens, so that’s not the new issue I’m hiding, or the weight I’ve gained, I think I’m pretty open about the changes I’ve experienced in treatment, and it’s been an incredibly frustrating experience, hoping to take less meds here moving forward. Less day meds, cut back on adderrall 40 mgs, only taking 20 mg, and cutting back on night meds, only 50 mg Trazedone and hopefully only 40 mg Geodone, cut back from 80 mg. So that’s my plan right now. I can’t help but be defensive to these subjects, because how I look and how I feel is about me, it’s about how I feel and how I look, why should anyone else care, and if I’m not on the market for dating, and not taking photos and working on myself, well then I should have that right to privacy for the time being until I get strong again. I can’t emphasize enough how important it is for you to love yourself and be honest, no matter what anyone has to say, and no matter what they reject you for, all people are beautiful when they try, and don’t leave it up to jerks and rude people to tell you how it is, I’ll tell you how it is, if you’re reading this, you are brilliant, thoughtful, compassionate, caring, ruthless, a giving person of your time and attention, and strong enough to not let what people say, or think about your looks or weight to bother you, or cause you to cave in be miserable. Most people are just that miserable, and if they are concerned about how you look, they don’t deserve to have you in their life. There are so many other things to try hard for in life, don’t let someone’s opinion of you, or threat, cause you to not feel good about yourself. Your pictures are real, that is really you, you put your makeup on that day, that’s your body, and you made the effort, so for anyone else, trying to accuse you of photo shop or filtering, ask them for recent photos and live photos, and see what they create, butt naked on the fly, for us women, that’s asking for way too much. Sometimes too much critical feedback, just ruins it for people, including me, makes me not want to date. Had a really bad experience on Bumble sharing photos, and because my Apple selfies, turn out terrible, was accused of sharing fake photos, even after Bumble verified my face. You know what that was the most hurtful and insulting experience Ive ever had sharing photos.