Let’s face it, some can do no wrong, aren’t they the lucky ones. But what about all of us working hard to be well liked, and to have no enemies. I’m telling you when you feel like you cannot win it is time to rise above. Rising above spares you the unnecessary wasted energy investing so many emotions into everything you hear, until you literally feel like exploding. Take a deep breathe. 9 times out of 10 things improve when you are in a better head space, able to communicate well how you are feeling, or even how you talk about a feud or difficulty you face with another, be the bigger person. It doesn’t help to turn things into a shouting match, one one upping the other. Hear yourself out first, before you start memorizing all the lines you’ve heard that simply aggravate you. You can do better. Tell yourself you don’t deserve to be treated this way. That you deserve to be healthy, happy minded, and well balanced like the rest of them. Don’t let anyone knock you off center.

What does it feel like when you are up against a person in life, who is more well liked than you, or considered in higher standing, how do you respond to wanting to be treated equally as important compared to others maybe going through the same things. The lesson is to be the kind of person who others want to take care of. Be the kind of malleable human being that you are, receptive to help, and willing to make changes in your life, to best suit those who you wish to be around. Life is a journey, and you can’t keep taking the same bus from point A to point B, and hope to get to be apart of some bigger adventure or event in life, you wish to be invited to, there is a reason why people connect and are able to attend events and meet people, and meet one another, don’t rush the process, keep busy, and find things that you are interested in, and that’s how you meet people like you.

There will always be feuds, over guys, over jobs, over sporting events, over war, there will always be feuds, but the lesson is how are you going to approach life in a positive way, that does not reflect the hurt or agony that one another feels in response to tragedy and unexplainable hardships and events. Be someone who is able to support others, if you can, instead of being someone who plays victim, or makes a subject more difficult to grasp, lending insight to terminology, religion, gender, or upbringing, that could make other people jealous, or feel less favored in life, compared to you. It’s not about where you come from, it’s about what you have to offer the world, coming from where you are. The better able you are to rise above and help others, the more able you are to be able to dodge conflicts, and the unexplained, without having to be punished for whats being done, not by you. It’s all about being a person of peace, who nothing bad is happening to you, nothing bad is happening to your readers, and no bad visualizations are taking place, clouding anyones thinking about life, and where they are or where they will end up in life. Life is very visual, how else can you get to your future, doing the same thing everyday, it requires dreaming, creativity, and most of all hard work and determination to make things right in your life, just as much as you should hope for things to go right in the lives of others. Don’t be someone who is afraid to discuss topics, speak openly and whole heartedly, and the lesson is you can do no wrong by simply caring, and approaching a topic. No one expects you to be an expert in conflicts and finding resolution, know that there will always be some type of resolution found in just simply speaking and sharing your mind. That’s what helps make the world go round.