How you handle pressure says a lot about where you are to others onlooking or trying to assess how far along you are in terms of realizations and life in general, as a person who writes life advice online, or considering careers in the helping professions, or technology. It all comes down to one thing, functioning, can you function. Can you take on the challenge of pressure. Are you aware of where the pressure is coming from, what do you feel pressured by. The more you can handle in life, the more successful you will become, and the more respected you will be in the community, the more independent you can be, and the more likely you will get to be apart of things gone well.

For example: “What can you do to improve your ability to deal with pressure, or at least avoid choking under pressure in critical career moments? “ [1] We generally want to get through, to overcome, to complete tasks, to get things done, to feel good about ourselves. The need to feel accomplished and proud of yourself, takes time, you wont feel good in an instant, or generate the feedback that you want all at once, it takes time to be regarded in the community as someone reliable, who works hard, who is hired, who is well liked, who people feel comforted by the advices given. You don’t just go international or get to 17 million views (like mymollydoll llc) trying to tell everyone how life works or needing to know everything in order to be a good source in life. Furthermore, “Many of the things we’re proud to achieve in life are the product, not just of our talent and effort, but also our ability to handle pressure.” [2] Helping others is a high pressure profession, there are many issues, there are questions, there are characteristics, there are personality traits, there are image concerns, there are concerns regarding ages or personal history, there are a lot of factors that go into people wanting to hear from you, hearing from you, believing in you, letting things go, understanding you, or becoming upset with you, feeling something is owed not given. In the end its about who you are as a person, first thinking for yourself, staying well, then secondly able to be there for others and stay well, I would hate to admit that you cant make everyone happy, not everyone will be pleased, not everyone will see your blog, not everyone will value your lens and perspective in life, and not everyone is going to know just how special you are, but be strong anyways. No one has to take $hit from anyone in life, not even me, no one deserves to be beat up in life, or bullied, or played, or made fun of, that’s not what life is about making things out of hate, life is about making things out of the goodness of your heart, to make all things with love, for yourself and with consideration as to the lives of others, and their ability to achieve happiness too, whether with you, absent you, knowing you or not knowing you. There is equal opportunity in being helped by me, Im online and anyone can read, that doesn’t mean that Im not going to flip out if I have a condition mental health related, just to bring up Snapchat and Lipkits, that’s not the solution for how I should be treated in life, or how to measure a limit in life or make careful considerations as to the health of everyone, who I am sure would prefer to not interpret things in the negative toward anyone, including myself, or people in general.

Try your best even if you fail, recently on Instagram, after being made fun of, and put in the hospital, and after punching my head, I came to the realization, that there was nothing that I could do about voices, and continue to come to accept what voices mean to me and continue to figure out the issue in time before I am harmed and that’s a lot of pressure to deal with, expectation, or humor, or what others think, and I think if you cannot be related to, what makes you a person, sided against, what makes you a person who is called a threat, what makes you a person, who people expect things from.

What makes you good enough getting a job working full time a litigation secretary and what makes you not good enough, in the eyes of who doesn’t like you for instance could be anyone, or someone who supports you or loves you could be anyone. In this life you cannot make everything perfect, or not make mistakes in the process of defending yourself, you are going to offend someone, someone is going to be scared of you, you will be rejected, you may not be loved by everyone, in this life, just do your best.

You don’t have to be understood by everyone, you don’t have to be nice to everyone, you don’t have to be warm to everyone, you don’t have to be close to everyone, in this life, you can be anyone you want to be and not succumb to the pressures of what is considered “criminal” or “mental illness” that’s not what any fan site is for making a permanent recommendation as to how the public should receive me or how someone dangerous or hateful can be given permissions to hurt me in life, is not a just system, maybe mental health is an unjust system, or mistreatment, that you have to get out of.

Reference:

[1] https://hbr.org/2022/05/how-to-deal-with-high-pressure-situations-at-work

[2] https://hbr.org/2022/05/how-to-deal-with-high-pressure-situations-at-work