Time flies when “we felt like we had all the time in the world.” [1] I know this because I’m 40 years old, and have already been through my 20s and 30s building a career for myself so that I can get jobs and move forward in life. Life won’t stop for you everytime you have a problem in fact you need to solve your problems before maybe you can be with time again. However no life is too short I’ve never agreed with that statement life is short it’s always seemed like such a negative take on how long life is regards to how much time we actually have left to enjoy life, clean up after our mistakes, heal, and begin again. – You don’t have to beat yourself up over mistakes in life learn from them, learn from others. You are not in this alone, we are all trying to live life as best we can, least we can do is clean up our end to provide a better sounding board to others on their end, that’s the grand scheme of things when it comes to voices, sometimes your voice is not all your own. Sometimes you’re speaking for others not just yourself. Speak from the heart but keep in mind everyone else around, it’s not just what we think, it’s also about what others think too. How much of what others think affects our own voices in our head it’s not such a bad thing to care about what others think in fact it affects us so bad that sometimes we turn on ourselves in life and that’s no way to live self harming or thinking any less of ourselves in the process of better understanding others. 

References:

[1] Why Time Flies | The Saturday Evening Post