Whether temporary or for the long run different people come into your life for a reason. Accept the time spent with those around you, however temporary it might be. There’s something to learn for every person you meet in life whether you know it or not. Some “show up to meet a specific need, answer a question, teach a direct lesson, or push you to grow.” [1]
Too often it’s in retrospect or long after an interaction that we review our circumstance and where we are now compared to what seemed that way then. That’s totally normal for in the moment being one way but afterward having differing feelings and may overthink too much about it all together. That’s not uncommon to be like hey wait a second did that just happen what does that mean. Every lesson may have a different affect on us, accept all with gratitude. You never know how long anything will last in life and that’s okay.
They say that people often during “moments of transition or confusion. Once the lesson is learned or the purpose is served, the relationship naturally runs its course or fades.” [2] So live for the moment. I was once told “honey we’re not getting any younger” by someone I presently like, and that really struck a chord with me. To just be appreciative of who’s in my life however temporary it might be, cherish my time with the ones I love, expect less, do my best, and have faith in my ability to be loved and not give up on that dream in life. He told me to “dream big” it feels good to be supported in life emotionally and spiritually they are truly one in a million. A diamond in the rough. Likewise I hope that you keep dreaming, keep your head up, and surround yourself with supportive people who believe in you and want what’s best for you.
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[2] https://medium.com/@katewindebank/the-three-reasons-people-come-into-our-lives-68eed4b54828
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