When things get difficult this can bring out the worst in us, not unless we are willing to face the facts with confidence, and share caringly, without a misstep, and without avoiding or dodging any subject worth discussion. Prevention. What does it mean to you. To me it means having reliable people who you can count on to be there for you in the event you need help, or in the event there is argument, or a combative atmosphere, room for discussion to either reverse a series of reactions, or attitudes toward one another, that is either bringing a person down individually with risk to others, or bringing others down with question for what reasons, is someone thought of not similarly affected, and we don’t always know the reasons for that.

I’m someone who was well, had energy, ran everyday, and genuinely wanted to help, and that was very complicated for me at age 27, I didn’t know how, I did not know how to fill out a form or a petition, or talk to lawmakers, or get a job with one (Rand Paul), and I did not know how to meet the President or to ask for permission to care (Send Fed Ex to The White House) and US Supreme Court, and that’s how you care that’s prevention, when you:

20 Ways to Care – Prevention Tips

• Don’t do anything without permission.
• Constantly seek guidance with your thinking.
• Run ideas past people who are superior to you.
• Not be afraid to share out loud, when you have questions.
• Not be easily bothered by others.
• Share your strategies for coping with others, thoughtfully.
• Not be afraid of questioning, if there is, it means empowerment.
• When there is questioning, that means power has been lost.
• When there is fear that means information can be known.
• When there is distaste that means be serious and conservative.
• When there is love, that means be funny, don’t take self seriously.
• When there is real representation, be supportive of those speaking.
• When there is creativity, think once or twice or three times about it: clear idea.
• When there is anger, think: beyond what it is bothering, understand the point.
• When you feel deficient, fill those voids with education, reading, & learning.
• When there is destruction, make a plan moving forward and share FEMA.
• When you have stress, not make additional people a party to that stress.
• When you have love, keep it, and if you can’t add to it, don’t break hearts.
• Get trained, never stop learning, share what you learn on social media. 
• If you’re new, learn from the best, and stick to standards, not drop trousers. 

I think unlike most advocates, they don’t get in trouble, and don’t have wild personal lives, and I’m sorry that that ever got out of hand, I always want to thank everyone for being nice about me liking older men, that’s not because of the bipolar, I’ve always been that way, difficulty connecting with my age group in a sexual way, it probably works better when they make an extended effort, Im very uptight, so its hard for me to show interest or to ask for love. And lastly the pictures, I have been working on pictures for years, pretty, cute, sexy, tough, and it just takes time, I think Ive improved, I also want to improve in videos, fix tone and face and add animation, be sweet but not sexually sweet like a video to a love interest, but to all, and not to talk to all like Im upset not be cold, and learn how to be presentable quick, and learn new apps. I recognize that by not working that changes the attitude towards me, I think with all things I will have well days when money is plentiful and people will want to be around me then there will be times in between jobs when I struggle to find myself professionally, still in the process of applying and hopefully get into a life coaching training job, and continue my education in public health so I can blog more competently and so the use of my work for other decisions that people may make creatively, will be more sound, I’m sure they’re great on their own, but I think its even nicer that they account for “conspiracy” or how things can go wrong and how that affects how people treat each other, like it’s the responsibility of people the wellness of others, I would hate to think that its my mental health that others are questioning or triggering for others, I think Im plenty hard on myself not a careless worker, structured and detailed, that I usually don’t miss a beat with others, so I will continue to stay up and help all. Stay focused!