As a blogger you go through many phases, growth, learning curves, and hopefully success once your audience finds you, but that doesn’t eliminate who knows you over the long term or any period of displeasure directed towards you. Be a good person and live as strong as your word, things start to fall apart when you allow your haters (aka negative voices) to change your course and luck in life.

It always seems like unhappiness is winning when things spiral out of control, it’s this illuminous downward spiral that some are fascinated in discovering about people, what breaks them down and causes things to not work out for them.

The exact basis for determining your value as a writer, it’s like your success is not attested to until you make money from your own work, not necessarily the success or positive commentary you receive. It always seems like hate unhappiness and displeasure needs to subside towards you until things come to full blossom (aka pride).

Know that as a blogger everyone’s on your side as known until any hate or mental health condition is picked apart to put you down in life the dangers of writing with disability it makes people question your worth and your value when mental health is considered your fault or a problem with your thinking.

Where does unhappiness displeasure come from, people who are not attracted to you, don’t value you, and don’t recognize your humanity don’t especially admire your strength or what you’ve overcome those could be people looking to improve themselves so directing disrespect you as to their ability to overcome a feeling of lost confidence displeasure or unhappiness.

This is how humor fails when there’s negative judgment it’s not your comfort that’s considered it’s the question over another’s discomfort toward you, who’s holding who when it comes to how you relate material to your own life. I think as a writer you are holding your own heart and navigating your words toward a more settling feeling which includes how others feel about you.

We are so used to strong people who don’t care what others think. I’m the opposite, my success is based on what others think coming from a high profile story that’s the audience that I seek not to upset and to be of value in a way that illustrates that I recognize the significance of those time periods whether I was a child or not at the time.

I’ve always thought that any period of rejection or not being good enough precedes any period in which you’ve successfully risen to an occasion (whether or not it’s your own success found through writing) before people can let go of their own doubts upsets and particularities. As readers everyone considers themselves smart so that’s a fact if life I’m getting used to others feeling smarter than me, or less disabled than me, perhaps the gift of reading is your own assembly of what things mean to you and how words resonate with how your feeling.

The best way to address (negative voices) would not to be upset aggravated or change, I’ve found recently this is something I’m struggling with (maybe because I have disability) being made to look bad or unstable. As someone known online I’m quickly learning how people can make you look bad, devalue you, and make you look stupid and that seems to be the theme when it comes to respect online as known, how do others equate value to their own lives knowing you and how are you devalued by the number of people who meet and come to know you.

I don’t think it’s fair to be judged socially if by hospitalization or AA, at some point you have to respect people for who they are as people not disrespect people based on who talks to them, that’s not always in our control.