Anytime you think you think you’re fully confident in a decision, your confidence will not be known until confronted by a force against you, and maybe that’s the general test in confidence, when it comes to whether you are composed of fundamental parts true or notwithstanding. I think we all seek to be withstanding the forces against us in life, no one wants to falter to the elements against them in life, and this you learn in adulthood, how to withstand the forces against you in life, and not fall asunder.

Being brave is about, doing what you think is right in spite, of any feelings telling you otherwise. Its not going against your gut feeling, its going by what feels right, in spite of what you are told is wrong with you. If you constantly ruminated over all the criticisms in life you would simply fall apart, and that’s not the way out of distress in life or difficulty, falling apart. You will learn in adulthood that the more put together you can be, the better off you will be. I think there is a lot of curiosity of people in their down moments in life, what are people like in distress, when their lives are falling apart, and nothing is going right for them, that would be these past 5 months, and although I can’t remember most of it, I think that finally waking up, from the fear driven mindset of your life falling apart, things will begin to put themselves together again, if you do all the right things in between. Ive only been scared for my life a few times, and in those moments its like a complete blackout, you don’t remember anything afterward, so that’s fear, it messes with your memory. This is why you have to automatically respond appropriately if you want to be a professional one day, you can’t allow all the little things that people tell you to get to you, or get you down in life, tell yourself you are not responsible for who seeks to break you down in life, all you are responsible for is yourself in those moments, and as thing begin to turn around for you, so will things turn around for others, and that’s the lesson with being brought down in life, you need to come up and out of being put under in life, and that’s how you stand tall in spite of everything, the right way, doing things the right way, saying the right things, and being a good person, is the only way out.

When you brave the elements you provide a shelter from which others are also able to brave the elements, whether with you, for you, or for themselves, that’s what people want in the end, not to be left out in the dust. People need to feel capable, and part of making people feel capable, is to provide a platform of reasoning and writing that allows them to think in times like these, when they don’t know where to start, when they don’t know what to say, and when they don’t know what to do. People are more likely to make decisions, choices, and think when they have seen someone else think or after hearing what someone else has to say. Its rare that people take it upon themselves to speak without having heard from others, or based solely on themselves, usually what people have to say and think has something to do with something else that has been said, and this blog is a good example of that. People reading making choices, decisions, and holding opinions. If I wasn’t the nurturing and supportive person I am, then those things wouldn’t happen for you, because of who I am I hope those things are happening for you in life, regardless of what the elements are, that you too are able to brave the elements.