When it comes to fighting, no one likes fighting, it takes a lot out of you, and makes you feel spent, as though all your resources have been exhausted, leaving you feeling empty. Fighting sometimes is a battle that you can’t stop, something happening that leaves you feeling powerless, it can be a tiring and grueling experience, to which no side winds up feeling good. Therefore the goal for all fighting would be how to rehabilitate both sides, speaking for both sides or all sides in a way, that all feel heard and allow everyone to be on the winning side of issues, means that youre not doing the following. What causes most fights: (1) criticism (2) ego (3) anger (4) intimidation (5) threat (6) lies (7) derogatory words (8) insult (9) possessiveness (10) blame (11) not feeling heard. I would say that most fights spiral into a situation in which either side is made to defend themselves, is how insults fly, when either side is not wanting to be blamed for how one another feels, this is how each side ends up feeling not being heard, this means that either side is not capable of making things better, because either side is refusing to be the source of completion of the thought of another, led into a conversation of admission to wronging one another, when one another has not wronged one another, then either side is not responsible for the other side feeling wronged, its by what you have done not forgiven for is how the aggressive side to an argument is left feeling wronged, when their reaction is not forgiven or excused, and that’s how a prosecution of interests continues directed toward a person, who one is shielding themselves from blame, that’s how people can be misused and targeted for another person’s guilt in mistreatment of the other, so this is how the side angry is not rehabilitated, when the other side does not let down their guard and allow the other side to feel loved or corrected based on their response to the other. It is usually by what people leave behind that they become possessive to, whatever you become disinterested in, is not responsible for the feelings you possess, people who are not married have no responsibility to take care of one another, nor are responsible for how they other feels who leaves behind the other, and no situation in which a person with disability is left focusing on themselves is not responsible for any feelings had or thought taken away from the other, focus on self is an allowable condition, which should not threaten the condition, of a person who holds the other responsible for how they feel, each person is responsible for their own condition, no one is responsible for another’s condition, or feelings, that’s each person’s responsibility to control themselves, see the good in others, and either allow for themselves to treat or rehabilitate others, but not be put down for others in life.

Situation: When a person you were nice to attacks you, and doesn’t trust you when you’re alone and focused on yourself, it’s a person who is used to you being around, and instead focusing on yourself, the disposition of a person who meets you, when you are not doing well, and the person who they later pay attention upon doing well, people who are mean to people who are not doing well, and attack them.