When it comes to perspective, diagnosis, reputation, status, money, intelligence, popularity, history, personal life, public life, it can be overconsuming at times, to the point neither is sure who the other is. So rather than be defensive about what you know or how far you’ve come, learn to recognize everyone, as equally determined to stay well, and be proud of themselves too. Whether you are a product of an establishment, representing others, or brought down in life excluded, it’s fair to say there is always opportunity to be welcomed back as you are, if you make enough money and find success of your own (and/or if you work hard enough to improve). Why not? In today’s world of heartache, deaths, suicide, overdoses, addiction, alcoholism, and mental health any number of things can go wrong for you, not everything you will be prepared for in life.

Now given my conditions, I only hope that life will be easier to adapt to, more resources tending to our needs, and a little more faith in things going well, as well as maintaining a belief in ourselves, even if we have no one to guide us, confide in, or help us along the way, you can do this! Why can you do this, because eventually to get well, you have to reach a point of willingness to get well, which means setting aside what you’re bothered with, taking space from what’s shocking or hard to deal with, forget what everyone else thinks and who you are or what’s the matter with everyone, now’s a good time to think about yourself, there is no sense of organization in disorganization, or disagreement or war, only hard feelings, difficulties, and challenges ahead. That doesn’t mean that the rest of your life should entail you to suffer to the same extent as maybe you are suffering now.

It’s never too late, and nothing is ever going so well that it is immune from trouble, hardship or suffering, not even my health, mental health, legal education, jobs, or experience, or websites there will always be things in life that hit you over the head, testing what you’re made of. You’re only job is to be human, know what to put aside, be mindful of what’s weighing, and do your best in spite of what others think. Not everyone will be on your side.

I have reached points in my career that my life or who I know doesn’t seem to matter, upon facing negative judgment, and that’s a very sad fact of life, to be one way, and mischaracterized as something else is really hurtful, that’s civil lawsuits, when life stops being about you and your recovery and progress, and things become about supporting others instead of you, and that’s how you lose support in life, to those against you.

The best thing you can do is improve and that’s how you remove yourself from a person who is perceived to be wrong, to a person who has bettered themselves so much that they don’t bother or worry anyone, and especially whoever has sued you, that’s the last person you want to be harmed by anything that has to do with you in life, and if the harm is already occurring in a way, that you have not yet experienced such as down in life, be careful the justice system will also put you in a down, to see whether you can bring yourself out of a hole in life or rock bottom test your strength. I can only imagine what it was like to follow my Instagrams, and brief moments of checking in by messenger and texts saved, you know those were ways I connected before I was able to connect well and be successful as a blogger, usually when one thing is going right other things will go right for you whether they are up or down in life, famous, or not. That’s how life works, how can you manage having multiple things go right for you and others in life, and that’s a good barometer for wellness, and knowing the difference between good or bad luck, or changing your odds or the odds of others from being harmed in life.

Don’t gamble your freedoms away taking chances on your well days, sensitive to everyone else’s demanding philosophies in life, one day you will be famous and successful, and you won’t have to worry what code or attitude is guiding seemingly unfair to any party related, that’s the challenge. To be who you are not change, to have supported people, picked by you, and then decided to focus on yourself, that’s me, helpful, whether I’m on Twitter, or my website, or speaking in private, I am the same nice caring and compassionate person, no different.