Work hard toward the moments when you’re feeling good. It’s no use backtracking when focusing on what you need to do right now is more important. Sometimes overcoming means just that focusing on what are your goals right now for the time being, what can you fix right now, what can you change about your right now, and handle all pains in life in stride.

When the odds are against you in life that’s a good time to buckle down say less, not eat your words moving forward, show more so through action. Inaction or hesitancy comes with the territory of proving yourself in life you do have to be careful, you do have to be picky, you don’t want to make mistakes, you want to get along with others, you don’t want to fight with others, and you want to do your best. When things work out for you you may forget what things were like worse off, but you will never want to go back to lesser places in life again, be yourself.

The game of life is to be understood, to feel forgiven, to rise above, to not be affected, to accept your errors, to provide strength, to accept your weaknesses, to be honest, to feel apart of these are the priorities of any game in life to include, not separate, to heal, not waver, to make concise, not be obtuse, to explain not condemn, to be grateful not complain, to feel recovered, not go backwards, these are the main priorities of recovery. To be loved, to be liked, to be wanted, to look pretty, to get attention, these are the priorities of goals driven for relationships and interpersonal wants and needs in life. We are not all configured the same, accept that each of us has a strength to bring to the table you can either make known expose others to what’s good in your life or how you think or refrain from sharing and keep your wins to yourself in life.

To resolve any conflict focus on your approach. Are you being avoidant are you being passive are you speaking clear. All of this will matter to how your received, either viewed as combative, rebellious, or the thoughtful listener to advised version of a rapport you’d like to establish. Don’t be defensive be approachable, and speak fluidly and concisely without getting too emotional over anything. The worst thing that could happen would be to be viewed as a threat or combative. Don’t lose respects early on when trying to communicate with any side in life.

Everytime you’re made to start over in life, that’s your new beginning day 1. It’s when you learn to let go of the past not go backwards and work from where you are in life. You can’t change what got you here or why you have less in life but you have everything left still to prove about yourself & to others.

Cutting back on your cares in life is not always a bad thing sometimes we are left with no choice but to focus on ourselves for the time being be comforted by what’s right in front of you there will always still be time left to assemble prevent or make better any system for better understanding in life. First have compassion for yourself god how far you’ve come, next loosen your grip on reality it’s just the same for everyone, secondly don’t raise concerns or your voice over matters not directly affecting you. Once you step into an arena in defense of an interest be persistent and don’t hold back the hesitancy you ever feel making a leap of faith in life is worth the effort whether you learn a boundary from it whether others are helped left unharmed you may not be the winner to a circumstance but that certainly doesn’t mean give up.

Depending on your cares in life don’t be defensive those will be the limits from which you are tested in life judged as either being a positive influence or a negative one. I’m a positive influence because I get read, followed, trend online, I get picked romantically, I get interviews and jobs, and I make friends easily approached in life. That’s living without judgment life happens to you and for you in life attracting all the same things and dangers as does anyone else who is right footed in life that doesn’t mean stop what you’re doing if you get hurt it means think twice think again make amends respect a boundary not contest or be viewed as threat or competition and not be possessive over any opinion held in life stand on your own two feet. That’s how to be a support system non confrontational is accepted through hard work and effort and doesn’t retreat in the face of intimidation change character or snap or grieve non issues created by any contender in life.

You’re only limit is you, the moment your motives and when what you have in life or held within is called into question pace yourself don’t jump the gun don’t assume don’t fill in gaps to achieve a point against you or create room for inference to dismember you or your progress in life you lose everything you have when you put yourself or the reputation of others in jeopardy whether you are supported or not or is always your responsibility to represent all sides well that’s being non-combative and an advocate for the best interests of all.

If you have the power to speak freely like me without interference be blessed by the fact that you are not encountering any confrontations concerning your choices (when room is left open to speak people are still listening when doors close that means you’ve said something someone doesn’t want to hear lost correspondence or mutual understanding in life). Your good character will always be tested in life, expect difficulty, expect challenge, expect that things will not work out or go as planned a good work ethic assembles and prevents as the opportunity is made a available to counter the events not working in our favor toward one another such as fighting disdain ruin and defamation, that hurts the odds of enjoying what’s gone well by wasted energy responding in cue to mutual unnecessary discomfort go by truths in life not what ifs or assumptions about the content of peoples private lives are none of your business. Focus on who you are what you’re about and what needs to be said everything else will matter less in the long run. Not all are fortunate to share so openly and amicably online know that that is a privilege and like all privileges those open ears to you can be lost such as in terms of readership and approvals of you the more combative the atmosphere the more difficult and mental challenges ahead the more clear spoken with reservation and withheld grievances the more you all for acceptance to take hold. That’s a system of respect that benefits everyone. Patience & filter.