I think the point of doing well is to give everyone peace of mind. It frees up others for feeling blamed and it allows you to take responsibility for your own life moving forward. Staying well benefits everyone exposed to you or not. We all influence one another in one shape or form ourselves. Staying well is also for your own benefit to feel good about yourself too.

Doing well in life is not just for you it means a lot to everyone too to see you doing well. Don’t blame others for your circumstances take ownership of what is and improve to be all that you can be in life. It is said that a “Positive mindsets and purpose-driven lives are linked to reduced cardiovascular risk and better physical health.” [1] I know this because I have overcome a heart condition myself. Furthermore “our “attributions” affect how compassionate we are to ourselves and others.” [2] 

Sometimes it’s a fallacy of belief that anyone is holding you down in life that’s a hurdle that can be overcome. A fallacy is “a flaw in reasoning that renders an argument invalid, unsound, or misleading.” [3] Don’t be ruled by others beliefs about you.

Some people act out of their own beliefs in life, it’s not just you and what you think, it’s about what others think too. These are the thoughts in your mind what are you going to do to have a balanced perspective in life and overcome what others think about you.

There will always be a competing thread between your viewpoint and sometimes the viewpoint of others. That should not cause you voices of believing that there is someone against you in life.

Please Note: Voices for me started 2017.

Take your power back by repeating affirmations to yourself in life to lift your spirits and not allow the voices to limit you in life. You are capable of overcoming what you find difficulty with even if others don’t believe in you, believe in yourself.

Reference:

[1] the point of doing well articles 2023 – Google Search

[2] The Best Greater Good Articles of 2023

[3] FALLACY Definition & Meaning – Merriam-Webster