With respect to the success of others, usually you should have nothing to say, but more curiosity should strike you as to what it is they are doing well and how well they are able to achieve in life, that’s just for the purposes of looking at ourselves, in comparison, what is it that we are doing right in life, and what is it that we could be doing a better job of in life. I think things only become related once mentioned, otherwise its best to leave things alone. Don’t ever look at the lives of others, and think that they are living their lives, and making important decisions, or business decisions, to make others look worse, or to paint a different picture or paint a picture at all as to what things look like. I think unless you yourself are clear and manageable to comprehend and look at and read into, will other shy away from reading your work, and read the work of someone else, who is better equipped to handle your questions in life as to how things look, like worrying what other people have to think or say, never worry too much about how things look on the outside, that goes as to your personal boundaries, your body, and whats around you, as well as in looking at others, perceive them as trying to communicate something, about someone other than themselves, as a human being we communicate our best interests rarely does one put their own needs aside, to better communicate the best interests of others. Unless you have been trained professionally, to read, review, interview, or get to know people through the question and answer process, are some more familiar with gathering informations about others, more than people are prepared or understand the concept of the interview, or reasons for sharing as to what is directed to be shared about. Always do your best, to make things not about private confidential spaces or therapy settings [which can cause discomfort], as that is not what I am describing, but rather, when looking at someone famous, and seeing someone not famous, and thinking that they are trying to piggy back, or look as special as, in comparison, or given being apart of the same or similar stories in life, that’s where I think I was disregarded as having a unique perspective only through my education and experience shared in personal statements to school but never published for likes online, once briefly posted on my website, but no one read it, and certainly not enough people to read and or comment, about anything I wrote when I was 19 years old. You grow and mature, and save writings, and sometimes you share those writings, at this time, what has worked best for me, is not by sharing my past, but by writing from where I am right now in life, and what I am thinking of right now, to be read into as clear.