Catch yourself before you fall into a negative spiral would be my best advice. Recognize when you’re giving up on yourself and allowing negative thoughts about yourself and your future to rule your current outlook. You only have one life to live meaning making the best of a good life. You may not feel well, you may feel hurt, you may feel tested, incapable, or failing but whatever you do don’t give up, you’re only letting yourself down in life when you give in to negative energies. For me maintaining a positive outlook is looking at my hand in life, and still making a good life out of what I have left of me. Starting over isn’t easy not with friendships, not when it comes to relationships, and not when it comes to going back into the workforce again and working. Those are steps you take once you’ve recovered from what’s bothering you personally, have overcome set back, and ready to meet the next challenge in life acceptance wise, friend wise, or in a loving relationship make last what did not last previously. You get to choose what you invest your time and energy in in life and if it’s not meant for you you don’t have to take additional steps to further any relationship that there is no future in. Sometimes there will be people in our lives who feel good but who don’t make us feel good, what is love? It’s being around people and feeling good upon communication with others, once you get sick it’s hard to have much of anything in life, why it’s important to never overinvest in anything that causes you illness, or to not feel well, that will surely change your hand at life in all other aspects of your life. Luck is what you make of yourself and if you want to start attracting the good back into your life you need to start living a life you’re proud of not be riddled with shame, embarrassment, and hardship, if you can do a better job at living life than you are doing now then do so, no matter who’s in your life, no matter who you match up with, and no matter what you have to let go of in life. Health is wealth. And although love is important it’s not the end all be all there are so many other things you can do with your life besides giving love and sharing love with another. If that’s not the end of your road in life or main goal then don’t let anyone convince you otherwise that you need them in order to feel whole, I believe you can achieve wellness on your own and that it’s not until you are well that you will feel wellness around you and be of interest to others and those who are well.

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