Nothing happens all of a sudden, not respect, not love, not admiration, not influence, and not guilt. Major feelings in life take time to evolve, and eventually either you or others will have to let go of whatever it is that’s plaguing you, or interfering with your ability to comprehend, the importance of stability and trust. I don’t think we were all made to trust each other, love each other, know each other, confide in one another, believe in one another, and lead one another. For some reason I feel like everyones protected spaces in life, mentally, simply doesn’t allow for anyone to be so willing to go along with what anyone is doing in life, not unless you work for them, know them, or call them family. Although you may expect to reach a point of stability later on in career, as you gain more valuable experience working in public and writing, you can still encounter the same problems in life, and its always by what you bring up in life, that respect is lost of you, it actually does the opposite of showing that you care, it looks as though you don’t care, or mention as though youre not affected, or have been affected similarly in life, made to not feel good about yourself, in the face of others. So what things are about, is mostly what youre comfortable with, and it may also be the case that what you are comfortable talking about, someone is not comfortable with, and that’s being offended by the subject carrying on over into a conversation, reading it and applying it to yourself, and then differentiating yourself from anyone described, and then seeing the world through the eyes of someone with awareness, so no matter where that point of view came from initially, if you later come across someone who you do not feel like fits the ideal of what you have wrapped up in your mind for things to be about, then you may never meet your match in life, constantly comparing people to what you think is an identifying factor of someone who has done wrong, or who is gone, or who isn’t going to make it, or is defective, or is the problem. We don’t get a lot of reassurances in life, when we are focusing on whats wrong with people, and failing to acknowledge their good years when they were doing everything right. So what is belief for. I think its important to believe in yourself, and to see the good in others, so much time is wasted when you don’t respect peoples journeys in life, and that doesn’t mean that theyre bad luck or a source of pain to anyone, yet, that’s not until you impress or then fail to meet the odds against you in life. I think for a short while I had a bright future ahead of me, and everything was going well, and all of a sudden all that momentum was lost, when you stop believing in yourself that’s the biggest mistake you can make, and if you cannot be strong for others, that is also a big mistake. So don’t allow anyone to make you forget who you are, in place of words or terms they think best describe you, if we all need God, and if we all need to believe in ourselves, and if people have been affected when someone who was trusted or doing well in life gets hurt, then whos fault is that, when lives have been lost and affected, whos fault is that when someone everyone has come to know and appreciate gets hurt, that hurts everyone when faith has been lost, so allow people to be themselves, allow people to take a step back, allow people to reassess whats important to them, and allow people time to rest and figure out what they need to do to live a better life and get going again. Remember its not all about you, and if someone is single, you don’t own them, its not your job to correct them, its not your job to campaign against them, its not your job to judge them, its not your job to interfere with their happiness or success, and its not your job to put them down in life, to cover for your own shortcomings in life, ruin someones life, because you don’t see the good in them, you don’t see the value in them, and you don’t appreciate all their hard work and effort, and how rare and valuable the experience of blogging was, with everyones permission to do well, to be liked, to be recognized, and to show their true colors, and get a job. Or we can go by everyones negative opinions of people, and see how far that gets us in life, probably not far at all. 

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