If nothing can be said to make fear even (or go away) then it’s best to account for everyone’s fears and individual interests in not being drawn into as a member to a controversy be exposed to anyone who is not at par or living life to a standard that accommodates the individual interest in not being made to think about be concerned for or be sided over for. That’s not what social space is for convincing just taking one look at a person a person can be sized up in life based on where they are where they’re headed and so it can be determined in reaction to others either we are stifled or we are at peace. Sometimes that’s the difference between those who belong deserve to rest or take a break versus those who appear to be avoidant of a responsibility seemingly not taken care of based upon what one is doing in life. Drinking doesn’t inhibit my ability to write, violence does, and quiet enables others to have that time to build up their esteems to fight get up or argue and sometimes that’s what’s needed to simply hear from someone already being fought. When people are fought it can be on any basis anyone can sue anyone for anything or any reason and that’s life. Reputation is on a person to person basis … there’s nothing you need to fight for or prove socially through drinking that you should not also be able to accomplish through blogging online. This is making sure that my odds online and popularity match my odds in real life to get along with others and not be a high profile joke sad story sore subject or place of question. People don’t want to know what’s wrong with you in public they want to know what do you have to offer and what’s going right for you that would disable or inhibit anyone else’s ability to get along in life is what people want to know. In what way should Leslie as Jewish be related and in what way is she living a life they are trying to blame as accepting for attack and what does writing in a bar prove that that’s an argument occurring that Leslie is responding to to curb disinterest or thoughts for blame by place.