When someone doesn’t like you they don’t want to hear the positive they just want to dig up dirt on you. Don’t let them. When someone expresses disgust with you don’t let it bother you. When someone competes with you ignore them. People just want attention in life, you don’t have to pay attention to anyone who’s hurting you in life. People just want “words that validate their feelings, confirm their beliefs, or acknowledge their personal value.” [1] You don’t need to change or fail or lower your standards to make them feel better about themselves. Don’t self sabotage. “Self-sabotage often manifests when you are surrounded by negative people or hold deep-seated negative beliefs that conflict with your success.” [2]
Life is about possessions and exchanges people wanting to exert their influence over you don’t let that negativity change your face in life or inherit their illness toward you that’s just going to make you feel sick.
Negative people feed off positive people. They just want to read along and get positive reassurance for their difficulties in life while not accepting you. It’s not what they want to hear positive comments, a smile, good fortune, or improvement they just want to bring you down in life to feel better about themselves. People think they can prey upon others for loving acceptance think by looking at a picture that you love them similarly but not if they’re acting that way toward you they don’t deserve to be in your life or read along for that matter or be apart of your life. Just ignore them. Do you best to perform in spite of any negativity directed toward you in life if others depend on you, rely on you for positive and sound advice, keep going don’t stop writing simply because they don’t like you, and even if they don’t love you or care about you and your mental health and well being.
References:
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