Tag: life skills

  • We are Each Responsible ….

    Once you become known and its on record how many people are reading and the potential number of people who can be helped by you, it’s more than just titles and headings which need to be proven against all odds, obstacles, and losses, it’s about who you are as a person, deserving, or not, let…

  • Go with the flow ….

    Go with the flow ….

    Learn to go with the flow. “Most people define it as an ability to change course, without getting stuck, when things don’t go as you planned.” [1] They say that “Practices, such as mindfulness and examining your values, may help you find your flow.” [2] Remember that “practice makes perfect.” [3] Be able to stay…

  • Be Addicted to Bettering Yourself …

    Be Addicted to Bettering Yourself …

    The drive to improve is in all of us. Who doesn’t want to be better than where they are right now. It’s a good thing for us to push ourselves to be better people. The only problem with wanting to be better than we are is that sometimes we may feel like we’re not doing…

  • It’s Up to You ….

    It’s Up to You ….

    It’s up to you … Where do you see yourself 5 years from now and what are you going to do to get there. Think of each day as bringing you one step closer. For every big goal set a few mini goals toward accomplishing that goal. How should you answer this question? “think about…

  • Goodbye 2023 …

    Goodbye 2023 …

    If I could summarize 2023 into one word it would be “hectic.” I’m sure it’s not the same for everyone. It always feels like I’m trying to get from point A to point B and barely making it then starting over again along my path in life. I’m hoping that in 2024 I actually get…

  • When is it time to drop it? …

    When is it time to drop it? …

    By the time it’s no longer serving you to speak up on a topic by then you’ve already tied your shoes into a knot just getting the conversation going. Ever feel stuck? It’s not your fault. Sometimes we can’t help ourselves but to defend ourselves but what happens when that only makes things worse. Just…

  • A Dose of Positivity …

    A Dose of Positivity …

    I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, what makes me happy. What are my needs and wants, and of absolute necessity. I think over the years, I’ve changed a lot but some things remain the same. Companionship is definitely on the top of my list of must haves, which at 38 years old comes…

  • What is Owed …

    What is Owed …

    What is owed is your undivided attention to things you find meaning in, meaningful discussions, and meaningful analysis, it’s the energy you give in return for awareness to issues that you might not otherwise think of, given your life, and experiences. So pride yourself for anytime you are put in the position of the observer…

  • Control Your Thoughts …

    Control Your Thoughts …

    Have you ever gotten the feeling like you knew something bad would happen, seems like this is something common occurring in times of instability or lack of faith in trust whether in others, or by our own devices unable to see the positive in. It’s okay to have your reservations, like most risks in life…

  • Don’t Forget Who You Are …

    Don’t Forget Who You Are …

    If you don’t know yourself by now, then there is no love that can remind you of all that you are and could be in life. Im lucky enough to have been given a second chance in life at love by good men I have met in my 30s, while abstaining from dating, and my…