Category: beingpositive

  • I Don’t Have to Be Beautiful for Anyone …

    I Don’t Have to Be Beautiful for Anyone …

    I don’t have to be beautiful for anyone that’s not what blogging and recording my health by selfie is about it’s about making improvements and working on yourself, focusing less on others, and the task at hand whatever that may be. You can only integrate and work alongside others and share common graces, encouragement, pride,…

  • The Weekend is Here …

    The Weekend is Here …

    This week went by fast, and ended in some turbulence on my behalf and Im sorry for that especially on Instagram I get all caught up in sending a message, and should probably spend more time putting it together, something that I need to work on and typos in messenger, maybe use my phone less.…

  • Got a New Job …

    Got a New Job …

    Aside from what’s been going on recently in the news, I have been doing well, but it’s never easy to hear the news especially when it comes to gun violence it’s something that has always traumatized me. When life gets tough you’re either someone who stops in their tracks frozen or you do your best…

  • Don’t Be Ashamed …

    Don’t Be Ashamed …

    Don’t be ashamed, set boundaries if you need them. We all feel bad when we make others feel bad, mostly we are people pleasers when it comes to blogging or being any kind of public figure, it literally hurts if anyones not happy with you or if you can’t make them happy, you feel powerless,…

  • Being Handed Problems in Life …

    Being Handed Problems in Life …

    For example, a solution or a problem, can work in a manufactured way that reflects an exposure or interaction that gets ingrained, and then plays a role in the direction of your choices moving forward, either affecting where you end up, how you are picked or what and to whom your attentions are drawn to,…

  • Why the Obsession? …

    It’s true that we can become so obsessed with our own thoughts that we will speak to scenarios created in our minds, ingrained in our memories, and wind up where, exactly to the feelings we describe, where is the growth in that? Memory needs no exact science to decipher exactly where a feeling came from…

  • Personal Update …

    Right now Im trying to get stable to go back to work on Monday, starting a new job, my first paid job at a law firm part-time with full-time potential, Ive been looking for years they are very hard jobs to get an qualify for pay, hopefully Im not too late, in terms of all…

  • Recovering from Suicide …

    Recovering from Suicide …

    No one will understand your problems in life, until you have them, and have to talk about your problems in life, and sometimes you don’t have problems yet, and get sick, it happens to the best of us, why people get sober, stay home, work on themselves, and try to stay focused on their health.…

  • Recent Discussions Private …

    Recent Discussions Private …

    For the most part I have improved, it’s better to be a man of your word than to be made out to be something that you’re not and that probably occurred because I wrote a book, I was doing well at the time I wrote my book, despite fires and jobs and any controversy with…

  • Overcoming Your Anguish …

    Overcoming Your Anguish …

    I know we don’t all have experiences with bullying and mine may be unique on my end, growing up in Brentwood on Rockingham neighbors with OJ, growing up close to the family, on every family vacation, but you can get through this even if no one sees you as special or recognize your vulnerability for…