If you want to be loved in life you have to be a strong person, because during the course of loving someone, there will and can be many obstacles or boundaries that are preventing total acceptance of one another love or value in life, either they don’t see the value you, or you are not of value to the extent that you measure up (not successful, known, social, or witnessed as strong) or match their needs and wants in life. One day those things wont matter and you will be appreciated by anyone deserving of your attention. That’s love, its an invested time and effort helping someone and supporting someone so that they are independent of you.

As a blogger you can’t help the fact that your version of love becomes a script as applied to you, or others in their lives, so don’t be shocked when people have things more figured out than you, its mostly when people know how one person works, they seem to know how they work and everyone else. It really takes only getting to know one person well, to know what love is, love should not be a vulnerable state, you can only love who accepts you and those you love as strong, its hard to be loved and maintain love with anyone who does not recognize the value of those around you, such as family or friends. Although someone might see the value in you, people can become turned off, when you are not made to feel good by those who others feel safe by, so that’s a distance questionable.

When it comes to clarity and feeling good, its about having a peace with others, including yourself, those are who feel good together. This I know Ive been in loved twice for marriage, just cuddling and being at peace, that’s my idea of love. Not to be alone in life, or experience mental health issues. I felt protected when I dated and was in love, I didn’t have any of the mental health issues that I experienced when alone, I took no photos, I didn’t participate on social media or Facebook, I was a workaholic and a law student. But life moves fast, so to keep up with things, sometimes you try new things in life, if you have the maturity for it, you will know when to try new things in life, when the things you’ve tried don’t work out for you psychologically, mentally, or medication wise, will know what your preference is any why, so stick to it, don’t end up with voices, torturing you over who you like or find attractive.

Ive never picked by look, its by who likes me. Why is love and changing for the better rare, because sometimes love helps to motivate people, and sometimes when people are lost the feel unmotivated, so when people feel found, or admired or appreciated, its flattering in a good way, until the wrong attentions are paid to people, that usually takes the power out of feeling good and being noticed, it seems to go away with the loss of respect somehow occurring when people are known. So that loving someone in public, you will feel proud you will want to share with everyone, you found someone to talk to, but in the end you are you, what is your reality.

What do you have to contribute to the world to make others feel good, what is your pattern, how are you being made to look, who actually loves you and knows you, and who doesn’t know you and doesn’t love you, it will be the difference between a lawsuit or a simple argument and a breakup. Why is dating casually a waste of time, it makes people respect you less, and if you do love someone it wont last, so that’s the lesson in having actual sex, although you may be made fun of and called names, that’s not the solution, so learn how to accept your place in life, and don’t lose love in life over dating or having actual sex.

Nothing will last romantically if you are not respected in life, that’s the lesson with mental health issues and lawsuits, its no longer about your health, tis about what has your health done to someone else, this is why I will stay in my room for the rest of my life and blog because its not worth reaching out to anyone who complains, and its hard to start therapy again, but Im assuming its so that I am not dramatic or my life doesn’t get worse by what people think or what symptoms I get.

It can not be the solution for all or for others once you are not feeling well, and that also doesn’t make for a lawsuit, I have about 2,000 followers a month on wordpress without distribution, so that’s my audience reach, and no paid for advertising or emailing at all this year, its only because there is gun violence that Im emailing anyone including the US Supreme Court.