Tag: fighting

  • When is it time to drop it? …

    When is it time to drop it? …

    By the time it’s no longer serving you to speak up on a topic by then you’ve already tied your shoes into a knot just getting the conversation going. Ever feel stuck? It’s not your fault. Sometimes we can’t help ourselves but to defend ourselves but what happens when that only makes things worse. Just…

  • Fighting is a Waste of Time …

    Fighting is a Waste of Time …

    What I learned on my writing break, is that I may get well, but the resentment toward you for being well, is something that can still hurt your feelings, so don’t in reverse get sick and give up, solely because your health is being confused for protest or upset, the upset doesn’t start until you…

  • Once You’re Done …

    Once You’re Done …

    In the aftermath of any battle, we may find ourselves picking up the pieces and reflecting on what has transpired. It may be hard to remove things from memory but there are ways to overcome your anguish, and finally let your defensive walls down again. It can be stressful keeping up walls, and find your…

  • The Type of Person I Am …

    The Type of Person I Am …

    Visiting OCDA Office, this is day 2, of visiting, I think I have stopped by twice before, so this may be my 4th or 5th time visiting the office, just sitting outside, Ive been walked into the building once to talk to a police officer at the front desk.  Getting your life back post punishment is difficult,…

  • You Should Benefit …

    You Should Benefit …

    If you have not lived life long enough to experience rejection and cold shoulders then maybe this is not the blog for you not to cloud your perception of “people” in general that’s not my intent to discuss me and my views and “people” in general, when people say people that’s just excuse for putting…

  • Overcoming Your Anguish …

    Overcoming Your Anguish …

    I know we don’t all have experiences with bullying and mine may be unique on my end, growing up in Brentwood on Rockingham neighbors with OJ, growing up close to the family, on every family vacation, but you can get through this even if no one sees you as special or recognize your vulnerability for…

  • Plans for Improvement …

    Plans for Improvement …

    What I’ve done well so far … 1. Introduced self, with a proper heading describing who I am, my purpose for being online and what I plan to share on my blog. 2. Categorized as a self-help blogger demonstrated by content shared and book subject written. 3. Graduated from law school finished schooling and working…

  • Recently Sick with the Stomach Flu …

    Recently Sick with the Stomach Flu …

    A little under the weather not to mention tricky discussions about mental health cures to better coping skills you get better at staying well the more you learn about how to respond to symptoms in a way that’s nothing to do with anyone I’m assuming a defensive stance to mental health is a situation about…

  • What Works …

    What Works …

    The same ideas don’t work for everyone, and when it comes to love theres a fine line between being there for other during a time of need, and not becoming reliant on people for mental health needs, which are better for discussion with a therapist, I think my time talking with Todd Spitzer have served…

  • Staying Focused …

    Staying Focused …

    Staying focused has not been easy, this Fall was a change of pace for me, beginning with applying for jobs over summer and finally found placement at “Peace Over Violence,” I was waiting to get stable to apply, and then there is always the new problem of being able to perform, which started when disability…