Tag: social skills

  • The Most Tiring Aspect (re-blogged) …

    The Most Tiring Aspect (re-blogged) …

    Originally Published 08-13-22 The most tiring aspect of being a blogger and becoming known is the limitations that others have with respect to your health, past, or acceptance for you, not seeing what others see in you, in terms of what it is you do well and a thorough job of ensuring, the confidences of…

  • Tell Us Some Good News …

    Tell Us Some Good News …

    Well today didn’t go well, anytime I stay up late too many nights, or get off my morning schedule and don’t wake up early, my days get shorter and it feels like Im accomplishing less per day, only able to do one thing, like work, or run, or blog, or clean my room, the best…

  • Don’t Be Ashamed …

    Don’t Be Ashamed …

    Don’t be ashamed, set boundaries if you need them. We all feel bad when we make others feel bad, mostly we are people pleasers when it comes to blogging or being any kind of public figure, it literally hurts if anyones not happy with you or if you can’t make them happy, you feel powerless,…

  • Recovering from Suicide …

    Recovering from Suicide …

    No one will understand your problems in life, until you have them, and have to talk about your problems in life, and sometimes you don’t have problems yet, and get sick, it happens to the best of us, why people get sober, stay home, work on themselves, and try to stay focused on their health.…

  • Progress and Setting Goals …

    Progress and Setting Goals …

    I think you can want a lot of things in life, and most of what you want you will not always get, whether that’s love, friends, or a job, but you learn to make due with what you have, and I guess that’s what blogging means to me, it means starting with where I am…

  • Sharing Positive Attention …

    Sharing Positive Attention …

    We all want to be someone that another feels good by. This has especially come to my attention, liking a politician, what will people think of me befriending him, and how will that make him look? This has caused me to be more careful about how I look, not that I didn’t used to care…

  • Out and About …

    Out and About …

    I haven’t been social in years so attending the Genesis Invitational golf tournament was a big deal for me to sit and have lunch with a group of girls, and wait in line for cocktails, and just be around people, I haven’t gone out since I got sober 2017, so although I was sober at…

  • Don’t Compound the Issues …

    Don’t Compound the Issues …

    First, you don’t want to compound the issues, when you are feeling stressed out. First identify where the stress is coming from, and what are the triggering sources? Does the problem lie within? Is the problem a person or a specific incident triggering you? Is there a news story that is hurtful or triggering? What…

  • Whats Important …

    Whats Important …

    Its important for me to stay positive, that’s not just a look, or a way to attract attentions where none are due, Im assuming the confusion with regards to self harm which are more a matter of everything being okay with expectation for me to be okay, and not being understanding of when Im ready…

  • Staying Focused …

    Staying Focused …

    Staying focused has not been easy, this Fall was a change of pace for me, beginning with applying for jobs over summer and finally found placement at “Peace Over Violence,” I was waiting to get stable to apply, and then there is always the new problem of being able to perform, which started when disability…