Tag: strength

  • (Removed) Complaining versus Solving …

    (Removed) Complaining versus Solving …

    03/28/23 Complaining about a problem is not solving a problem, this is what makes people feel scared and they don’t engage or do the work, because they are upset, usually upset means that you think something existing is wrong or creating for, whatever temperature you feel within, if you have limits, don’t let your limits,…

  • Let People Into Your World …

    Let People Into Your World …

    Let people into your world, but not without directions. It seemed my initial thought to build a huge ad of myself online with directions to any potential suitor in life would help to explain myself better in life where I stand, what I think, all the conversations we used to never have in intimate relationships.…

  • When Respect Returns …

    When Respect Returns …

    One day everything will settle, things will be good enough, and everyone will have had the opportunity to go backwards in life as many times as needed until they assemble the perfect solution to their discord there are always things to blame in life for your feelings, unfortunately the past had no better path in…

  • What is Stupidity? …

    What is Stupidity? …

    When it comes to feeling good, no matter how it occurs, you must be doing something well, either mentally or physically, not worried about outside pressures, in your own skin, being yourself, and able, competent. That’s feeling good in my mind. It’s when nothing bothers you and you can exist, without interference from other people…

  • It’s Been Awhile …

    It’s Been Awhile …

    If it’s been awhile since you last smiled or laughed then you would be on board with my tone in life, which is not humanly possible to get through that much seriousness in life, and not lighten up as you get through the hard parts, and that’s apart of being human. We can’t all be…

  • Starting to Feel Better …

    Starting to Feel Better …

    First busy day in awhile since the move. We moved to a smaller place, and really like my new room and happy to put odds and ends in storage and start anew no more filing cabinets. Since I started blogging my apartment has been full of filing cabinets printing and saving everything as I went…

  • The Circle of Care …

    The Circle of Care …

    If it hasn’t hit you yet, once it does we are all here for you, that’s trauma. It stops you in you tracks, causes you to freeze, and lose your positive momentum. Life may get difficult emotionally, but that doesn’t mean you’re alone. Tune in to things that matter to you, and don’t be afraid…

  • When It Comes to Love …

    When It Comes to Love …

    When it comes to love don’t deny your feelings, you could be causing more harm than good in avoidance of facing what baffles you, challenges you, or forces you to look at yourself, asking yourself where do I need to improve? Often times, if you’re like me, we don’t feel validated by the whole experience,…

  • You Can Only Move Forward …

    You Can Only Move Forward …

    When you can only move forward, sometimes this involves letting things go. You can go on carrying around with you all your problems for the rest of your life, just like therapy is temporary, it’s until you feel better and can get through things on your own. What to do when there’s no clear path…

  • Whats Tough …

    Whats Tough …

    One of the toughest battles you will ever face in life is when you are not feeling good, and if you cant figure out why, not wait until its too late and you’ve isolated either by choice, or by preference, and hopefully via no overt words or actions that set you apart from others in…