Tag: companionship

  • Be Someone in Life …

    Be Someone in Life …

    Be someone in life, and that starts with making other people feel good, even if you don’t. That’s being an adult, not taking your frustrations in life, out on yourself, or with distaste for anyone, if it’s a matter of you being happy, then start there and worry less about the unhappiness of others. How…

  • Outgrowing Competitive Energy …

    Outgrowing Competitive Energy …

    For every well moment you experience in life, be proud of yourself, its when competition hits, that things go from sailing in life, to a stand still, or weight gain for that matter gained 18 lbs since January, finally reached my goal weight -30 lbs was at 160 lbs, and happy, maybe my face did…

  • Life Happens …

    Life Happens …

    Life happens, its impossible to know anything in advance to anything happening, which causes you difficulty in understanding, if its just a challenge to overcome thinking wise, then please don’t be too hard on yourself. Wisdom occurs when you are at peace, that’s a good time to reflect on life, and what needs work. Like…

  • What I Need to Work On …

    What I Need to Work On …

    To maintain positive rapport with everyone:  Love one person, and not bounce in the event of flirting. Allow for who I love to be in the spotlight, not disempower by my odds. Not talk about the past in a way that makes anyone look bad. If I have left previously, wanted, not leave a good…

  • Resist the Urge to Backtrack …

    There are two ways of moving forward, one is to revisit your past, and once that’s dealt with focus on your present, or to think about your future with appreciation for where you’ve been. Notice that in both instances, you are looking at your life through a positive lens. That’s caring for your best interests,…

  • How to do What is Right …

    How to do What is Right …

    When things are not going well that’s a good time to do what is right, even if you don’t know what to do, don’t know what to say, start somewhere. All difficult periods in time, require some thoughts, about how to process an event, review what has been going well, and figure out where any…

  • Always Be a Catch …

    Always Be a Catch …

    There are simple and obvious rules to dating, besides always being a catch, it means taking good care of yourself, being emotionally stable, having good conversational skills, being confident, having something going for you in life, valuing the time and attention of another, not being too needy, and getting tested. They may not stay, there…

  • Moving Forward in Life …

    Moving Forward in Life …

    Life will throw you a curve ball on occasion, when you are allowed to either view one thing in multiple ways, or be left stuck seeing things only in one way, and this is what compassion is for, if there is no side to win with, if there is no one argument to feel lifted…

  • Love Lives On …

    Love Lives On …

    It’s not a perfect ending going back to my ex, but rather a new beginning. Somewhere to start beyond the chaos that surmised between myself and my thinking about things with nothing positive coming to fruition for me until I began writing. There’s so much value in discovering yourself and re-discovering yourself. Always keep in…

  • What’s Easy? …

    What’s Easy? …

    Catch yourself before you fall into a negative spiral would be my best advice. Recognize when you’re giving up on yourself and allowing negative thoughts about yourself and your future to rule your current outlook. You only have one life to live meaning making the best of a good life. You may not feel well,…